Thursday, March 30, 2023

My first day at Jaipuria!

It was a pleasant morning. My mom hugged me and wished me well. I went to the bus stop with my dad, my elder brother, and my sister and waited for the bus excitedly. This was my destination. I had always wanted to go to Jaipuria. 


Yes, going to Jaipuria was my dream which came true.


A year ago, I used to go to another elementary school and I always saw my brother and sister going together to Jaipuria. I wanted to join them as soon as I grew old enough.


I was told, growing older wasn't enough and that we needed to pass a very tough entrance test. They ask over 40 questions in 5 minutes and there are several rounds of it. They tested Hindi, English, Math, Memory, etiquette, social skills, etc


My parents taught me well, especially my mom. I remember doing grammar for 10th standard with my mom before the entrance test and yes I topped it with a good lead. 


It was published. My relatives from far off came to congratulate me. One of my mamaji gave me INR 100 which was a lot at that time.


I felt really good. All the recognition was a bonus. For me, my dream of going to Jaipuria with my bhaiya and didi was the biggest which got fulfilled.


I still remember Mrs. Lila Chnadra waving from the window to my parents and she gave me a very warm welcome on the bus. She used to be my bhaiya's teacher and had seen me before.


During the lunch break, my brother came and took me to the canteen and bought me 2 samosas. I was mesmerized by how nice and big this school was as compared to my previous kids' school and how yummy the samosa was. He then gently escorted me back to my class. He was 5 yrs elder than me so I walked with air that such a senior person is my brother :)


Still remember buying stickers and pens from stationary and those fun stationary shop and canteen visits with friends.


The teachers were motivating. Starting from Mrs. Indraramakrishnan, and Mrs. Aloma Das, to Ms. N Kapoor, Ms. Gauri Bhushan, Mrs. Usha Sinha, Mrs. Indu Sharma, Mrs. Bhagoliwal, Mr. Shepherd, Mr. Menon, Mrs. Lal, Mrs. Arora and other honorable teachers, our music and art department, activities, and a lot more.

Certainly, the best in Kanpur. Once in the school, there was no other way but to go higher.


And thereon, it was a journey till the end of the 12th standard. Amazing teachers, great peers and friends, and a steep learning curve. 


At that time, during the matches, we used to cheer our sports team as,


'Wherever we go, people wanna know, Who we are, So we say,

We are the Jaipurians, are mighty mighty Jaiprurians."


All I have to say is that this slogan is so true!!!

Proud to be a Jaipurian!!!


Dr. Jaya Sonkar MD MPH

3/29/2023


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Friday, March 10, 2023

It's all about perspective

It's all about perspective!

Everything is relative.

Good or bad

Near or Far

Slow or fast

Future or past

It's all about perspective!

A plane is the fastest among most of the vehicles

When we fly, it doesn't feel fast. In fact, sometimes it feels slow. You see a light that's far off and it moves very slowly towards that.

Is it really moving slowly?

Well, objectively, if we go by the speed, it is going fast. But the speed with which it is approaching that light doesn't feel much. That's because the proportion of distance that it covers is probably not a large proportion.

Similarly, when we are engaged and really enjoy what we are doing or if we are busy, time goes so fast as if a day passed just with a wink of an eye.

But if we are sad, in pain or just unhappy, the time feels very long. 

Someone might feel that the town which is a 100 miles away, is far. The other person drives a 100 miles each way to and back from work. Some other person drives 500 miles a day and some even more. 

What's near to one could be far to the other.

We have an understanding of good and bad, right and wrong and a general notion of good is something that doesn't harm or brings joy.

However, there is an interesting twist to it.

What's good to one might be bad to the other.

Someone might say that giving candy to a child is good and it brings cheer. The other would say it can rot the teeth. 

Someone may say, it's good to reward. The others may say it's better to punish. Another might say rewards may make it too easy. Yet another could say punishment can demotivate people.

Everyone can choose to see the glass half full or half empty . The volume of the glass won't change. The perspective can make a remarkable difference and can result in very different outcomes.

If we really enjoy what we are doing and count the things that we want to do and spin it to always land on a positive perspective,  life is really short and very precious and full of tremendous joy.

Now, you may like this article or you may not.

In the end, it's all about perspective!

Jaya Sonkar MD MPH

3/10/2023

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Holy Holi!


Holi ka tyohaar
Rangon ki Bharmar
Toliyan zordar
Koi na bair, sirf Pyar
Holi khushiyan ka tyohaar

Khushiyan ka tyohaar

Bacche pichkari chalaye
Maayein gujhiya banayein
Ghar aaangan sajayein
Papa sangat Ghar le aayein
Mil ke Holi manayein

Holi rang sajayein

Hiranyakahsyap ya prahlad
Har yug mein inke Pratap
Har dharma mein inke avtaar
Bhakti koi bhi Karein aap
Ya padhein koi bhi kitaab
Satya, ahinsa, prem ke hi path

Holi bhulaye Sab santaap

Mil ke Holi manayein sabhi aaj!
Holi hai!

Jaya Sonkar MD MPH
3.10.2023
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